Andrew
& Paul
June 6th, 2024 - Monterey, CA
About Us
Hey there! We're Paul and Andrew, the duo that grew from a college cafeteria crush into a real-life love story. We first crossed paths as undergraduates, where our eyes did most of the talking. Fast forward to our first college production together that had us playing father and son on stage – talk about a plot twist!
After co-founding a theater company and surviving a long-distance stint, we finally made it official with our first date in May of 2019. In recent years, when we're not busy working or in class, you can find us dreaming up our future home, binge-watching Survivor, going to see a Broadway show, and occasionally annoying the heck out of each other. We both proposed in late 2022, managing to surprise each other in Warwick, NY, and Pacific Grove, CA. Sunsets, beaches, and a couple of 'yes' moments later, and here we are!
Our journey towards affirming our true selves and reconciling our spirituality with our love story was like navigating a weird but wonderful rom-com.
While we were both raised with conservative beliefs, in our adult life we’ve embraced a new path that is both fully queer-affirming and deeply Christian. Our wedding ceremony, officiated by a radically Christian woman, stands as a testament to the love we've found and the hope we carry. As we celebrate the opening of this significant chapter, we envision our union as an example of what inclusivity and acceptance can mean in the context of faith. Join us in fostering a space where love knows no boundaries, and together, let's paint a picture of a church that embraces the diversity of Christ’s love.
See you at the celebration!
Andrew & Paul
The Ceremony
Ceremony will begin promptly at 3:00 pm on June 6th, 2024
Ceremony to take place at:
Butterfly Church, Pacific Grove (First United Methodist Church)
915 Sunset Dr, Pacific Grove, CA 93950
Parking is available on-site.
Reception to directly follow at
Memory Garden
20 Custom House Plaza, Monterey, CA 93940
Street and lot parking are available nearby.
The Wedding Party
Jordyn Palma & Victoria Sanchez
The “Best Women”
Jordyn & Paul have been inseparable (or insufferable) since middle school.
Victoria and The Boys met doing theatre in college and have been best friends ever since.
The Girls and the Boys have lived together since 2020 in California and New York.
Janine Marderian
Andrew’s sister and closest familial ally.
Eva Pauley
Paul’s oldest childhood friend.
Bex Free
Andrew’s closest childhood friend
Jason & Charlotte Hamlett
Moved to Monterey in 2019 and quickly became a part of the chosen family
Emily Castro
Met Andrew & Paul doing theatre in the college. She's played Andrew's daughter as well as Paul’s sister and wife. An integral family member.
To Do In Monterey
We know we have people coming from near and far. Please check out this page with a list of fun things to do in Monterey!
FAQs
For additional questions feel free to email us at
marderian-davis@gmail.com
The Vibe Is: Coastal Cocktail
While a color scheme is not enforced, if you want to get in on the aesthetic you could chose something in the following colors: Sage Green, Dusty Rose, Eucalyptus, Pale Blue, Persian Pastel, Pale Mauve, Champagne Pink.
Ties welcomed but not required. Note that the reception will be outside so bring a layer and chose your shoes accordingly.
For dinner we'll be enjoying R&R Tacos (a delicious local taco truck).
They will be serving: Tacos and Quesadillas with options for meat and veggies alongside a chose-your-own topping situation.
Classic Californian!
We are beyond excited to celebrate our special day with you, and your presence means the world to us. As we plan for a memorable event, we want to ensure a comfortable and enjoyable experience for everyone.
Due to venue capacity constraints, we kindly ask that you please adhere to the specified number of seats indicated on your invitation. This will help us create a seating arrangement that accommodates all our guests while maintaining a cozy atmosphere.
Your understanding and cooperation in this matter are greatly appreciated. If you have any concerns or special considerations, please don't hesitate to reach out to us directly.
Andrew and Paul will be getting to town on Saturday, June 1st. The wedding party will be arriving early that week as well.
Feel free to come early, join any wedding week festivities, and explore Monterey!
What’s Next?
